没有人的街， 想带我走去什么方向， 我不敢知道
陌生的天空，要带来什么暴风大雨，我不会躲靠
这里还有属于我的地方 还是 我早已经离开
曾经你拉着我反抗的手对我说
就算世界末日来临 我还有你
痛苦是舒服的 眼泪是甜的
如今 这始终是一个笑不出来的幽默
我相信你 并不是因为你那顽固的右手
而是因为我还相信我的爱情
Friday, January 28, 2011
Friday, January 21, 2011
好男人...找不到女朋友的因素
壞男人往往臉皮厚，大膽，善於撒謊，不太受道德約束，花招詭計多，不負責任。
而這些特點恰恰擊中了女人的軟肋。
假設硬件條件相似的好男人和壞男人遇到同一個女人，壞男人的殺傷力要強出N倍。
首先，好男人的出手概率要小得多，因為好男人開始追求之前就要考慮負責任的問題，
所以不完全中意的不會去追，條件不成熟的目前不能追，對方已有男友的不能追，未來前景不看好（例：在不同城市）的不能追，限制極多。
而壞男人反正也沒打算負責任，只要對方有點姿色，或是觸手可得，一概先追了再說。
第二，好男人誠實，沒錢沒關係就實話實說，對女方的缺點也坦誠相告，往往讓女人很失望。
而壞男人隨便編兩個故事就可以顯得自己實力超群；對女人花言巧語又很容易讓她們心花怒放，認為找到了知己伯樂。
在這個浮躁的社會背景下，好男人多年的辛苦努力換來的成果多半還不如一個壞男人用3分鐘時間編出來的故事更能讓女人心動。
第三，好男人總想著尊重對方，不會找機會調戲非禮。而壞男人通過調笑，酒精，跳舞等方式隨時刺激女人的荷爾蒙，
一有機會就把對方佔為己有。女人一旦被調動起來，反而很快會愛上這個男人。壞男人一次調情的效果往往超過好男人默默的多次付出。
有些傻女人認為男人上了她就是愛上了她；更傻的女人認為一旦被男人上了，她就必須愛上這個男人。女人的本性中隱含著逆來順受的基因。
第四，好男人真心付出，把雙方的感情看得很重，心態容易不平衡，為一些小事和女友爭吵。
而壞男人心想：反正我不過是做一場遊戲，找點刺激罷了，哄哄她得了，生個什麼氣啊？心態更平和，反而顯得成熟個性好。
第五，壞男人的約會經驗通常比好男人多的多。參照第一條，壞男人一有機會就出手，即使不成功也積累了經驗，逐漸了解了女人的心理。
壞男人通過大量的實戰經驗在約會時把這些表面工作做得很好，而好男人卻懵然不知，被唰了都不明白為什麼，還以為是自己實力不夠。
第六，雙方發生爭執時，好男人自尊心，原則性強，不會輕易遷就對方，往往為些小事誰都不讓步，最後只能分手。而壞男人臉皮厚，認個錯比喝稀飯都容易，往往 輕而易舉就能哄得對方回心轉意；當然，那是在他還沒有玩膩的時候，否則即使女方讓步他也能找出藉口分手，有時候女人反而會一再讓步，徹底淪為壞男人的玩 物。
第七，好男人原則性強，循規蹈矩，往往顯得乏味。而壞男人一心追求刺激，變化多端，常常給女人以新鮮感。不知不覺中，女人就被壞男人迷惑住，控制住了。
第八，大部分女人對生活的期望值不現實（愛情小說，電影看多了的後果）。造成的後果是誠實的好男人達不到她們的期望值，只有壞男人才能編造出一個她們心目中的理想世界。
另外，對於多數女人來說，上床造成兩人關係的質變。佔有她身體的男人比起其他男人有太多的優勢（親密程度大大增強，對方無形之中多出很多操縱女方身體及行為的權力等）。
壞男人能做到的，好男人為什麼做不到呢？
對於好男人，你是他生命中的重要組成部分，他對你的過去，現在，未來都在意。
而壞男人更能容忍你的缺點，因為他只需要容忍幾天，一兩個月；而好男人卻要計劃一輩子的前景。
但是女人往往對好男人努力為她所做的事認為理所當然，不屑一顧，所以好男人要變壞，才會得到女孩子的青睞。 。 。很認同！
壞男人往往臉皮厚，大膽，善於撒謊，不太受道德約束，花招詭計多，不負責任。
而這些特點恰恰擊中了女人的軟肋。
假設硬件條件相似的好男人和壞男人遇到同一個女人，壞男人的殺傷力要強出N倍。
首先，好男人的出手概率要小得多，因為好男人開始追求之前就要考慮負責任的問題，
所以不完全中意的不會去追，條件不成熟的目前不能追，對方已有男友的不能追，未來前景不看好（例：在不同城市）的不能追，限制極多。
而壞男人反正也沒打算負責任，只要對方有點姿色，或是觸手可得，一概先追了再說。
第二，好男人誠實，沒錢沒關係就實話實說，對女方的缺點也坦誠相告，往往讓女人很失望。
而壞男人隨便編兩個故事就可以顯得自己實力超群；對女人花言巧語又很容易讓她們心花怒放，認為找到了知己伯樂。
在這個浮躁的社會背景下，好男人多年的辛苦努力換來的成果多半還不如一個壞男人用3分鐘時間編出來的故事更能讓女人心動。
第三，好男人總想著尊重對方，不會找機會調戲非禮。而壞男人通過調笑，酒精，跳舞等方式隨時刺激女人的荷爾蒙，
一有機會就把對方佔為己有。女人一旦被調動起來，反而很快會愛上這個男人。壞男人一次調情的效果往往超過好男人默默的多次付出。
有些傻女人認為男人上了她就是愛上了她；更傻的女人認為一旦被男人上了，她就必須愛上這個男人。女人的本性中隱含著逆來順受的基因。
第四，好男人真心付出，把雙方的感情看得很重，心態容易不平衡，為一些小事和女友爭吵。
而壞男人心想：反正我不過是做一場遊戲，找點刺激罷了，哄哄她得了，生個什麼氣啊？心態更平和，反而顯得成熟個性好。
第五，壞男人的約會經驗通常比好男人多的多。參照第一條，壞男人一有機會就出手，即使不成功也積累了經驗，逐漸了解了女人的心理。
壞男人通過大量的實戰經驗在約會時把這些表面工作做得很好，而好男人卻懵然不知，被唰了都不明白為什麼，還以為是自己實力不夠。
第六，雙方發生爭執時，好男人自尊心，原則性強，不會輕易遷就對方，往往為些小事誰都不讓步，最後只能分手。而壞男人臉皮厚，認個錯比喝稀飯都容易，往往 輕而易舉就能哄得對方回心轉意；當然，那是在他還沒有玩膩的時候，否則即使女方讓步他也能找出藉口分手，有時候女人反而會一再讓步，徹底淪為壞男人的玩 物。
第七，好男人原則性強，循規蹈矩，往往顯得乏味。而壞男人一心追求刺激，變化多端，常常給女人以新鮮感。不知不覺中，女人就被壞男人迷惑住，控制住了。
第八，大部分女人對生活的期望值不現實（愛情小說，電影看多了的後果）。造成的後果是誠實的好男人達不到她們的期望值，只有壞男人才能編造出一個她們心目中的理想世界。
另外，對於多數女人來說，上床造成兩人關係的質變。佔有她身體的男人比起其他男人有太多的優勢（親密程度大大增強，對方無形之中多出很多操縱女方身體及行為的權力等）。
壞男人能做到的，好男人為什麼做不到呢？
對於好男人，你是他生命中的重要組成部分，他對你的過去，現在，未來都在意。
而壞男人更能容忍你的缺點，因為他只需要容忍幾天，一兩個月；而好男人卻要計劃一輩子的前景。
但是女人往往對好男人努力為她所做的事認為理所當然，不屑一顧，所以好男人要變壞，才會得到女孩子的青睞。 。 。很認同！
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
着
走着 搂着 吼着 明天的希望
想着 酿着 降着 昨天的凝望
耗着 牢着 抱着 今天的盼望
徐徐的微风吹着吹着 暖暖的阳光洒着洒着
今天的光芒罩着拢着盖着昨天阵阵的绝望
迎来了花儿草虫的高唱。
anyone could compose music to this lyrics ? just for fun..hahaha, not completed yet.
想着 酿着 降着 昨天的凝望
耗着 牢着 抱着 今天的盼望
徐徐的微风吹着吹着 暖暖的阳光洒着洒着
今天的光芒罩着拢着盖着昨天阵阵的绝望
迎来了花儿草虫的高唱。
anyone could compose music to this lyrics ? just for fun..hahaha, not completed yet.
Sunday, January 16, 2011
2011
It's 2011 !!!!
It's been quite sometime since someone last updated this blog.
2011 started with a great 2D1N trip to Fraser's hill. It is always great having to go for holiday with a bunch of crazy friends.
Picnic ??? a word that sounds strange to the kids nowadays..trying to recall our childhood memory, few stops have been made to have our picnic session. ( Selangor Dam & Chilling Waterfall ). We had an interesting encounter with the guard at Selangor Dam,
Guard: Eh!!!! tak nampak papan tanda tu?? tak boleh makan ...
CS: Ooo..minta maaf boss..tapi picnic kat rumput boleh??? (jokingly)
Guard: Saya tak tau you dari sekolah mana...( walking away.....)
CS: ...............
the guard must have some unhappy "experience " with his wife on the previous night..hehe
after the speechless encounter with the IDIOT..we decided to pack to go to our next stop ( chilling waterfall ), only spent about half an hour there, taken some pictures..and left for our final destination.
After some winding roads, we finally reached Fraser's Hill. Someone had car sickness and felt like throwing out, too bad for them, sitting in SC's car, being @#$%^&* all the way to Fraser's Hill. Checked into our 3-bedrooms apartment with only 1-bedroom rate. So lucky of us.
We then headed to Smokehouse to enjoy an hour of expat's lifesyle. Had few scones and cuppas of coffees, chilling in the english old colonial buiding, whatever stress and worries have been put aside. After that, we came to Allan Water which used to be a dam. 3 pairs of childish teenagers had their water cycling competition here. And it had been won by long-legged CY and Joanne.( no prize was given away )
It started to pour and we headed back to apartment to get ready for Gordan Ramsay's Hell Kitchen live show. Some kaki judi started playing "nammi" while Gordon's assistants were busy preparing dinner at the hell kitchen. After settling everything, lets have our family photo taking session with our beloved Gingerbread man.............
All kinds of stupid pose....the motherly Theng Theng was practising how to feed her kids in the near future with VODKA. This mom must be crazy!!!!!
Steamboat dinner started with all kinds of BALLS ( requested by Nen aka carnivour ). Eating steamboat under such a chilling weather was so enjoyable. The long awaited highlight of the night...DRINKING GAME began right after everyone was full with the BALLS......bla bla bla.....someone was blushing...someone wanted the King so badly...someone had to kiss someone...someone had to carry someone...someone had to down few glasses of VODKA...someone had to dance sexily...someone had to............
Before everyone went to bed..lets have a night walk. Good night everyone :)
快乐时光过得真是快，又是时间说bye bye! During the night, someone rushed into the washroom..someone came out and discovered that ..isshhhh..no ELECTRICITY!!! It was so dark. Everyone woke up around 9am, planning to go a morning walk. Before we left, lets have another family photo taking session at the spacious balcony :) but this time our beloved Gingerbread man was not involved :(
Everything was packed, and off for breakfast. We did some morning walks along the "flowery" street have our breakfast. Camwhore session is a MUST everywhere we went.hehe
About 12pm, we left Fraser's Hill. It was another annual trip that had been made. Credits must be given to everyone who joined this trip. And thanks to Rachel and Catheryn who were able to bear with our craziness :)
More road trips to come in the near future. Of course there will be a major Siem Reap trip in August this year and also some couple trips like Thoe & Nen's Jakarta and SC & Nic's Melbourne trip.
Stay tuned for more..........
It's been quite sometime since someone last updated this blog.
2011 started with a great 2D1N trip to Fraser's hill. It is always great having to go for holiday with a bunch of crazy friends.
Picnic ??? a word that sounds strange to the kids nowadays..trying to recall our childhood memory, few stops have been made to have our picnic session. ( Selangor Dam & Chilling Waterfall ). We had an interesting encounter with the guard at Selangor Dam,
Guard: Eh!!!! tak nampak papan tanda tu?? tak boleh makan ...
CS: Ooo..minta maaf boss..tapi picnic kat rumput boleh??? (jokingly)
Guard: Saya tak tau you dari sekolah mana...( walking away.....)
CS: ...............
the guard must have some unhappy "experience " with his wife on the previous night..hehe
after the speechless encounter with the IDIOT..we decided to pack to go to our next stop ( chilling waterfall ), only spent about half an hour there, taken some pictures..and left for our final destination.
After some winding roads, we finally reached Fraser's Hill. Someone had car sickness and felt like throwing out, too bad for them, sitting in SC's car, being @#$%^&* all the way to Fraser's Hill. Checked into our 3-bedrooms apartment with only 1-bedroom rate. So lucky of us.
We then headed to Smokehouse to enjoy an hour of expat's lifesyle. Had few scones and cuppas of coffees, chilling in the english old colonial buiding, whatever stress and worries have been put aside. After that, we came to Allan Water which used to be a dam. 3 pairs of childish teenagers had their water cycling competition here. And it had been won by long-legged CY and Joanne.( no prize was given away )
It started to pour and we headed back to apartment to get ready for Gordan Ramsay's Hell Kitchen live show. Some kaki judi started playing "nammi" while Gordon's assistants were busy preparing dinner at the hell kitchen. After settling everything, lets have our family photo taking session with our beloved Gingerbread man.............
All kinds of stupid pose....the motherly Theng Theng was practising how to feed her kids in the near future with VODKA. This mom must be crazy!!!!!
Steamboat dinner started with all kinds of BALLS ( requested by Nen aka carnivour ). Eating steamboat under such a chilling weather was so enjoyable. The long awaited highlight of the night...DRINKING GAME began right after everyone was full with the BALLS......bla bla bla.....someone was blushing...someone wanted the King so badly...someone had to kiss someone...someone had to carry someone...someone had to down few glasses of VODKA...someone had to dance sexily...someone had to............
Before everyone went to bed..lets have a night walk. Good night everyone :)
快乐时光过得真是快，又是时间说bye bye! During the night, someone rushed into the washroom..someone came out and discovered that ..isshhhh..no ELECTRICITY!!! It was so dark. Everyone woke up around 9am, planning to go a morning walk. Before we left, lets have another family photo taking session at the spacious balcony :) but this time our beloved Gingerbread man was not involved :(
Everything was packed, and off for breakfast. We did some morning walks along the "flowery" street have our breakfast. Camwhore session is a MUST everywhere we went.hehe
About 12pm, we left Fraser's Hill. It was another annual trip that had been made. Credits must be given to everyone who joined this trip. And thanks to Rachel and Catheryn who were able to bear with our craziness :)
More road trips to come in the near future. Of course there will be a major Siem Reap trip in August this year and also some couple trips like Thoe & Nen's Jakarta and SC & Nic's Melbourne trip.
Stay tuned for more..........
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